Comments on: The Lesson on Performing: Nobody Can Bend Indefinitely https://www.pipeaway.com/angela-laurier-performing-vs-quitting/ mapping the extraordinary Mon, 14 Oct 2024 04:44:22 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0.1 By: Ivan Kralj https://www.pipeaway.com/angela-laurier-performing-vs-quitting/#comment-73145 Mon, 14 Oct 2024 04:44:22 +0000 https://www.pipeaway.com/?p=12770#comment-73145 In reply to Jan.

I’m glad you enjoyed the post, Jan!
Angela Laurier’s passing is such a sad loss; she was bringing so much depth to her performances.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts and your connection to Cirque!

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By: Jan https://www.pipeaway.com/angela-laurier-performing-vs-quitting/#comment-72678 Fri, 11 Oct 2024 12:35:59 +0000 https://www.pipeaway.com/?p=12770#comment-72678 Enjoyed reading your blog post. Yes, it is hard working in a restaurant. I am a big fan of Cirque du Soleil and have enjoyed that performance in Dubai and London. Amazing athletes! Very sad to hear about Angela Laurier – such a skilled performer!

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By: Ivan Kralj https://www.pipeaway.com/angela-laurier-performing-vs-quitting/#comment-72196 Tue, 08 Oct 2024 16:31:10 +0000 https://www.pipeaway.com/?p=12770#comment-72196 In reply to Alexa.

Thank you so much, Alexa! I really appreciate your kind words.
I had no idea you worked in the service industry, but then you know firsthand how tough it can be.

I’m glad you connected with Angela Laurier’s story too. Yeah, no matter how magical the performance might seem, there can be so much struggle beneath the surface. Thanks again for sharing your thoughts and for connecting over both sides of the story!

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By: Alexa https://www.pipeaway.com/angela-laurier-performing-vs-quitting/#comment-72185 Tue, 08 Oct 2024 15:38:47 +0000 https://www.pipeaway.com/?p=12770#comment-72185 A sad story but beautifully written! I enjoyed hearing about your ‘time off’ from blogging this summer. I’ve worked a lot as a bartender and server. It is hard work and even though it can help fund travel, having a short time off doesn’t always let us see the area in the depth we would like. I am a big Cirque du Soleil fan — both for the performances as well as music on it’s own. Angela Laurier’s story is deeply moving and serves as a poignant reminder of the immense struggles that artists often face beneath the surface of their performances.

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By: Ivan Kralj https://www.pipeaway.com/angela-laurier-performing-vs-quitting/#comment-71965 Mon, 07 Oct 2024 05:40:46 +0000 https://www.pipeaway.com/?p=12770#comment-71965 In reply to Alan Josephs.

Thank you so much, Alan.
I’m truly grateful that the article resonated with you.
It’s always difficult to grasp the pain someone must feel to make such a decision, and it leaves us with so many emotions — sadness, confusion, and a strong reminder of how important mental health is. I’m glad if this piece could spark some reflection.
Your kind words mean a lot, and I really appreciate the well wishes. Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts!

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By: Alan Josephs https://www.pipeaway.com/angela-laurier-performing-vs-quitting/#comment-71909 Sun, 06 Oct 2024 22:02:16 +0000 https://www.pipeaway.com/?p=12770#comment-71909 Wow. I am sincerely moved by this article. Always saddened, shocked and confused by the thought of someone feeling the need to end their life. Thought-provoking reminder for all of us. Thank you for the perspective and good luck with your new adventure.

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By: Ivan Kralj https://www.pipeaway.com/angela-laurier-performing-vs-quitting/#comment-71822 Sun, 06 Oct 2024 09:22:50 +0000 https://www.pipeaway.com/?p=12770#comment-71822 In reply to Michael Taylor.

Thanks for sharing your story, Michael!

Restaurant work can definitely be fun! There are entertaining moments that lift up the spirit, and also many to learn from.

But I almost envy those 8-hour shifts you had. Waiter’s standard overhere during the season is more like 50-60 hours a week, or even more, if one has to work every day. So tourist season practically forces you to have a vacation afterwards (if not a sick leave!).

But yeah, in your case, working any number of shifts while juggling studies could not have been a recipe for a great success. It’s understandable you couldn’t give the best of your game. But you survived to tell it all!

Thanks again for sharing your experience!

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By: Michael Taylor https://www.pipeaway.com/angela-laurier-performing-vs-quitting/#comment-71806 Sun, 06 Oct 2024 07:47:44 +0000 https://www.pipeaway.com/?p=12770#comment-71806 A sad story indeed! My only stint working in a restaurant was in Honolulu when I was 19. I was attending the University of Hawaii, and got a job at the Hilton Hawaiian Village, working “back of house” in the kitchen. We set up banquets and washed dishes when they were over. Actually, it was quite fun! Met so many interesting people! But those eight hours shifts – and living in Hawaii – took their toll on my studies. I got one D and one F and ended up back in California after only one semester.

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By: Ivan Kralj https://www.pipeaway.com/angela-laurier-performing-vs-quitting/#comment-71630 Sat, 05 Oct 2024 04:16:35 +0000 https://www.pipeaway.com/?p=12770#comment-71630 In reply to Kelly.

Thank you so much, Kelly.

It’s definitely a sad story, and I appreciate your kind words about how I shared it.

Restaurant work has its own unique set of challenges and, in current circumstances, it felt like the right time to step away.
I really wanted to be around important people who were going through difficult periods (more difficult than my, for sure), and I haven’t seen them for some time.
So walking away felt better. Which doesn’t mean I won’t come back when the time comes 😉

Thanks again for your comment!

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By: Ivan Kralj https://www.pipeaway.com/angela-laurier-performing-vs-quitting/#comment-71629 Sat, 05 Oct 2024 04:09:55 +0000 https://www.pipeaway.com/?p=12770#comment-71629 In reply to Heather.

Thank you, Heather.

It truly is heartbreaking when we lose so thought-provoking artists. Despite the pressures in the performing world, I think that here it were other, off-stage inner battles that made this exit feel like the only option.

And yes, despite the heavy topic, the sheer talent of performers like Angela is awe-inspiring.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and connecting on both sides of this conversation.

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